Relationship Coaching
Improve The Quality Of Your Relationships
a relationship seem to "evaporate" over time?
Why do couples struggle with intimacy in their relationship?
Why do expectations of a marriage not synchronize
with what actually exists in the relationship?
Why do some partners look outside of their relationships
for stimulation, instead of working to improve a parnership?
If you have ever asked yourself any of these questions and more, our Relationship Coaching can provide clarity. We can assist you in turning your relationship around or enhancing your current partnership for greater mutual collaboration, satisfaction & happiness.
It takes a concerted effort and commitment by both parties to bring about change in any relationship. Our relationship coaching assists you to dramatically improve the quality of your current relationships, by learning to use assets and creativity that you already have, and may not be aware of.
Our Relationship Coaching Clients have reported that we have successfully partnered with them to:
- Experience a richer more loving relationship as a result of learning how to actively promote joint collaboration.
- Develop creative solutions and successfully adapt to changing circumstances in life, that may be impacting the relationship.
- Enter into new life parnerships that use a joint design effort for a stronger more resilient relationship.
- Identify repeating patterns, expectations, roles, etc. that have negatively impacted past relationships and learn to proactively change them for more satisfying partnerships.
- Take accountability for their respective contribution to the state of the relationship and not assume the other partner's responsibility. When each partner focuses their energy toward changing themself for the better, it can automatically translate into influencing the relationship.
- Identify how, where, or why a current relationship rut may exist and learn how to actively work toward creating momentum for positive change.
- Learn how to effectively use negotiation and balancing needs, as powerful tools, to insure that both partners are happy with team generated solutions over conflicts or challenges.
- Redirect their energies from attacking each other over a problem (trading blame back and forth), to attacking the problem instead. This refocusing empowers the relationship by making better use of the collective and creative energies of both partners.
- Having a more positive influence on each other, by creating a backlog of team successes as they begin to accumulate. This creates a positive perspective that can be referenced when future stressors arise.
- Recognize and respect differing communication styles that each partner may use and their influence. This recognition results in better connection and collaboration.
- Implement a practical standard of mutual consideration and graciousness onto the relationship, resulting in a closer, more appreciative, and supportive daily environment.
- Achieve a higher awareness of how they each influence each other positively and negatively, so they can more effectively resolve situations on the fly, and prevent accumulating resentments.
- Learn how to identify a low-level fighting process in its very earliest stages, to avoid a higher level of escalation. The team's energies can then utilized to recover much quicker.
- Make each other aware of occasionally stepping on each others toes, in a face saving communication style, and propose a different way of handling the issue in the future. This helps couples learn from mistakes and not recycle the same arguments over and over.
- Effectively prioritize and balance their primary relationship and supplemental relationships (friends, colleagues, relatives, etc.) to short circuit misunderstandings and clarify expectations.
"If you are committed to improving your relationship and want to take the first step, we can assist you."
~ Michelle D'Avolio
North Suburban Life Coaching For Your Relationship
We offer both a male life coach and a female life coach to accomodate your personal preference. Call us today to set up a free interview with coach Michelle D'Avolio or coach Nicholas Baldo. We look forward to speaking with you, and the opportunity to assit you in your journey to improving your relationship. Call 781-246-3388 or email us to set up a time.


